"who are you to Judge". IMO The sooner this coach realizes he is just another guy the better a coach he will be.
Oh, what heavy cross to bear, being a martial arts instructor
The burden gets heavier and heavier the more titles, style names, syllabus', disciples, outdoor students, indoor students, scrolls, etc you lay on your shoulders. The higher you place yourself ... the further you are from the people your trying to coach.
Rather than standing on the shoulders of Giants, you end up with Giants standing on yours. Some things that could help those budding coaches out there ...
1) Define YOUR goals as a coach. If you want a fight team, then reject people who don't share that vision.
2)Get people to define THEIR goals straight away!!! then coach them towards those goals. Its not your job as a coach to tell people what they should want to achieve. If your thinking you want to create fighters and people are arriving wanting good health .. you need to identify that early and politely decline.
3) Call yourself a coach at best (there is a very practical teaching reason to not put yourself on a pedestal.)
4) judge peoples 'effort' by their own goal not by yours. (if someone makes it once a week and that's all the training they do, that may well be a giant step up for where they were previously when they were just sat around watching TV eating take away' ... be proud of their efforts ... like a good coach should be! Motivate them through positivity, not through being an asshole)
5) Don't have Hierarchy in your group. (This coach places himself 'above' all others and seems to infer then should earn the right to train with him. not the attitude of a good coach imo)
6) Coach to the individual and make your coaching fluid enough to cope with the strongest in the room as well as the newest.
7) Be honest.8) Put the student first. show them what they need, not what they want and don't show off.When i teach i will tell someone what they need, not the entirety of what i know. You are in a trusted position ... dont make it all about you.
just some thoughts fwiw.
Chris.
There's no place like Utopia. If people want to make a living as a teacher, they need to be prepared to teach anyone who can pay the fee. The teacher need to teach the students on their own terms and give them what they want. The teacher is there for the students, it's not the other way around.
well that put it more succinctly than i did! haha ... +1