Counting strokes, yes a problem for a lot of interested people. Without - hard to use a Chinese dictionary
My wife (who is a school teacher, Taijiquan teacher and knows chinese) saw the problem and wrote a little workbook (with a lot of characters from the topic of Taijiquan) about it. After going through the workbook, one has a deep insight into Chinese characters and can use a Chinese dictionary. Here one can find it (Sorry costs 3,- pounds, but printing in small amounts is not cheap):
Taijiquan-Lilun Workbook Issue 1 - Chinese Characters for Beginners (with tests and solutions):
http://www.wutaichi.org/book.asp
Here at the bottom one finds a pdf example page:
http://www.wutaichi.org/articles.asp
Greetings
Martin2
Sorry for the advertisment, if it is not OK delete it, but I think a lot of people have this problem and know no solution.