mixjourneyman wrote:See the thing is I'm not even sure if "fighting" ability is what I want to get out of martial arts. Of course having said that I don't know if health or spirituality is what I'm looking for either. I kind of just stumbled into MA and then later heard that some people did some really great things with them. I've been around long enough now to see that most people don't do anything great or even remotely good with MA (self included at this point) and that there is a lot of navel gazing and dishonesty.
At this point I honestly just want to look into finding out what I want from MA, setting a goal, and either getting there or getting as close as possible.
Ian wrote:Whatever you plan to do, you should really read Gavin De Becker - The Gift of fear, at least once.
mixjourneyman wrote:
What are you trying to achieve? (1-10):
Fighting ability? (yes 5 or 7).
Spirituality? (yes 5).
Confidence? (yes 10).
Health? (yes 10)
Making overall quality of life better (yes 10).
RobP2 wrote:Quality of life should be top of the list for everyone - after all everything else is just a contribution towards that. That's probably the major factor that changed my direction a few years back
mixjourneyman wrote:Confidence: I realized while writing this that confidence is one of the most important traits I want to develop in MA practice. I want to be able to make descisions easily and to be able to feel at ease in my own mind. I also want to be able to navigate interpersonal relations better. That second point may be difficult to include in the scope of martial training, but I think I should work on it since in person to person relations I am somewhat awkward.
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