internalenthusiast wrote:later, in childhood playground fights, it's not usually so much (in my experience) that you want to hurt someone, so much as defend yourself. as bruce/shooter said, it's a boundary thing. but the sense of ease, listening, and relationship skills evidenced by caliG's clip, seem to me like they'd feed in very well. i ran into more people trying to beat me on the playground, than i did trying to beat me at chess.
i don't think it's as much a question of teaching a child to want to hurt (which i have real questions about, at that young age), but of dealing with physical contact, sensing flow, and responding. those skills may be indirect, but they seem to me to be life-long in their applicability. not only for physical altercations, but also for skill in human relationships.
that's why i said i'd wished i'd had that kind of training/mentorship at that age.
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Dmitri wrote:OK, watched the clip (enough of it to get the idea...)
This is clearly not teaching violence, but I would question WHAT exactly it is teaching him? Systema-style techniques and conditioning him to the fact that a small wrist movement can send a guy a few times his size to the ground?
Not my cup-o-tea, but of course to each their own.
to me, the clip illustrated (in game form), some basic principles of spatial/anatomical and momentum relationship. it was clearly cooperative (of course), and teaching based.
the emphasis was not on hurting (on the adult's or the child's part), but on the child finding, flowing with, and changing what was being presented. it was like some "puzzles" were being presented by the adult, and the child was invited to solve them.
i personally, did not pick up on any signals from the child that he was uncomfortable with this. i think i would have felt very comfortable with this kind of game, and would have found it fun, given that it was my dad playing with me, and it was affectionate.
Dmitri wrote:
"help the kid see the effects of his action" -- but these are NOT effects of his actions, at all.
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