downwardspiral wrote:dont do it.
don't do what?
downwardspiral wrote:dont do it.
everything wrote:we were training judo with eyes-closed once. some inappropriate, inadvertent touch happened. I don't think she was uncomfortable with it, though. Made me a little uncomfortable. no big, but a normal hazard, esp. in grappling.
Bhassler wrote:Edit: none of this addresses even remotely the fact that a 110 lb unarmed woman will most likely have no chance in any sort of physical altercation with a 220 lb. athletic male-- the point being that training may need to be altered due to physical stature, genetics etc, but that goes beyond the present discussion of not touching the girly bits.
Michael Babin wrote:
Unfortunately, in western countries, if you run public classes somewhere there is no way to legally exclude women. Even if you could, it wouldn't be fair to the those that want to train seriously.
Dmitri wrote:Pushed-hands with many female partners, -- never even a hint of a problem.
No, one should not avoid even accidentally touching breast like a plague or like they're gonna burn your hands, but OTOH that also doesn't mean there shouldn't be any distinction from a guy IMHO... Some balancing is required I think, and what I came up with (in PH setting) for myself is that, since it has a very restrictive rule set and a specific goal so personally I add one more little "rule" for myself, -- to avoid, within reason, those two specific spots ... it's not that hard to do, it doesn't take away from the exercise, and also it's not a big deal if, god forbid, there's a terrible accident of occasional contact. It should be safe to presume that she's a big girl and is fully aware of such possibility going in to this sort of training.
When rolling in GJJ classes, there is also never any problem in that respect, even though the contact is much more pronounced and extends to areas other than breasts, compared to ("standard-issue fixed-step") PH... The rule set is also of course MUCH less restrictive...
It's just that there's never even a remote thought, no matter how "hot" they might be, of anything sexual -- you're working on something very specific, it's an MA class... IMO if you're having any sexual thoughts in a class/training setting (and you're not a virgin teenage boy ), you (general 'you') should probably be seeking some sort of counseling.
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