Chris McKinley wrote:...<Snip>...
County morgues are all too full of 'reasonable' victims. Life-threatening assaults are not reasonable situations and do not call for reasonable, well-socialized responses and actions. I think perhaps you may also be off-track in what you are labelling a self-defense situation. If the attacker is so uncommitted to taking your life or that of someone present in your charge that you can afford to "knock him down the first time he attacks to see what he will do", then you are not in an unavoidable situation and, frankly, you shouldn't be fighting him at all, you should be leaving.
If he, or his accomplices, are that committed, you would be suicidally foolish to give him any opportunity at all to attack you to the extent that such a choice is within your hands. If you, miraculously, were somehow capable of knocking down an attacker intent on taking your life on his first attack, I'll tell you precisely what he will do next. He'll draw his weapon and kill you, and possibly whomever is with you at the time. Unfortunately, this is how real life goes down....there's nothing reasonable about it and there's no room for "least possible harm" philosophies in a situation where life is at stake.
Short of that, it's not really a self-defense situation anyway, it's a scuffle...a good old-fashioned donnybrook. Now, if you're engaging in those, you get whatever's coming to you because they are almost always avoidable.
Given this definition of a self defense situation, how does one assess the level of danger short of an actual physical attack already having occurred? How does one differentiate between someone looking for an old-fashioned donnybrook vs. someone wanting your wallet that you could just give to them vs. someone intent upon killing?