Giving money to Haitian charities has nothing at all to do with being racist. In fact, it's the racist's argument. "I'm not racist because ... my best friend is Black ... my wife is Black ... I hire Black people ... I like Michael Jackson." The first problem is: not having Black friends, not having a Black wife, not hiring Black people, or not liking Michael Jackson DOES NOT MAKE SOMEONE A RACIST. If someone tells you so, he's just ignorant; ignore him.
The second problem is: it's totally unnecessary to assert that one is not racist if one is not racist. The problem is that people who are prejudiced almost always feel that their prejudice is justified. It doesn't matter whether the justification is because ... they're Muslim, Mexican, Syrian, Haitian, LGBT, or White, American, Christian, etc. It's ignorant, but it's their logic.
Yet, even while they have prejudiced views about the group, they always point to examples of how un-prejudiced they are. For example, Trump's comments about "shit holes" mentioned Nigeria. But, he hired Omarosa Manigault, who was the daughter of Nigerian immigrants. Of course, African immigrants to the US from former British colonies do well in general. And, Trump is correct that "immigrants" take jobs that African Americans could have taken. Omarosa,however, was born in Ohio. Get the picture?
Let me clarify. It really doesn't matter if Trump holds ignorant views about countries or peoples. There was a time not too long ago that his views were standard. Hmm, it's easy to pick a date: 1965, when the Civil Rights and Immigration Rights Acts were signed. Um, before that, Omarosa's parents might not have made the quota based on the "national origin index." Without those acts, she might never have gotten into college. How she got on the Apprentice, I don't know (never watched). I do know that being appointed "Director of Communications for the Office of Public Liaison" for the Trump administration was a great leap for her, but meant nothing about Trump's views on Nigeria, Nigerians, or Nigerian immigrants.
Indeed, that's the self-evident disconnect. Meanwhile:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSHvCArMCUM