My balance still sucks, but I'm becoming more ambulatory as of this writing. I'm still walking with a cane, but I don't seem to be needing it as heavily as before.
I definitely commiserate. I was going to start a thread on "recovery." My neuro condition affected my balance. Anyway, I learned a great deal. Before my operation, I didn't use a cane; I used my bike
But, that was just to be able to put in steps. (I still carry my pedometer to count). After the operation, they asked if I wanted a cane, but I declined. I didn't know whether I could go back to work. It was the stairs in the subway that was the problem. They are long and steel and in rush hour I was terrified. Well, first lesson I learned was that the hardest things for me to do were the best exercises. Keep in mind that, at that time, putting on socks or tee shirts was a struggle
Afa balance, in my case, the best way I can describe it is that the feet (specifically the ankle, knee and hips have their own "brains." We take them for granted, but it's how we can walk down steps without looking. Without those brains, the eyes and ears have to take over. For me, this meant that I had to look down at my feet to know where they were when I walked. We take it for granted that the sidewalk is flat, but it often isn't. But, if it's necessary to look down, the ear canals are not in the right position and the tendency is to fall forward. If this has never been an issue, it is hard to understand --but it's almost like having someone inject novocaine in the joints. The body (brain) realizes it, so to compensate it just tightens up as a defense mechanism.
Well, in terms of recovery, I had to relearn how to walk. I suddenly realized why children did seemingly silly things. They skip or hop or walk unevenly, etc. It's not silliness; it's practice. So, I started trying to skip --and I quickly found out that I couldn't. Aha, that's what I started to do. A few years down the road, I think it helped. When it comes to neurological issues, or damage, progress can be very slow. Nerves grow at about 1mm per month --and they have the ability to make new connections.
Best of luck to ya!
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