Bottom line: women need to learn better coping skills and tools.
Better coping skills and tools for dealing with tools or men? What exactly is the responsibility of men in these situations?
Frankly, the women who are coming forward now sound like they were terribly naive and sheltered to be so traumatized by such inappropriate nonphysical behavior. Also, how could those actresses whose parents were in the business not know about the proverbial famous/infamous producer's/director's couch? I certainly knew about such stories growing up.
We're still talking about women understanding and coping with male behaviors. Frankly, this writer is talking about women in the entertainment industry, and that's only because they're the ones making the news, and the only reason for that is the stature of the men they're accusing.
I think that the writer is correct that women have some responsibility, but it's not the responsibility not to report if they feel they've been sexually harassed. And, there's still a difference between the workplace and in general society.
I lived in Paris. There, I could walk up to a strange woman and ask her out for a drink. In the US, it was unheard of. But, in Paris, a drink was just a drink. It wasn't an insult to be turned down, or an invitation if accepted. None of this has anything to do with coercing a coworker into sex, or using the Christmas party to feel up a secretary, or using sex to get a job.
So, who should complain, and when? I completely disagree with the writer's premise. There's no such thing as "too much" reporting of rape, even though women are blamed for having skirts on and going out for drinks with men. That's why they don't report.
And of course there is always the elephant in the room: our bragging pussy-grabbing President.
Yeah, I agree that the hypocrisy is disgusting, especially in "Christian" America. But, should the Great pussy-grabber change? or is it up to the women around him to understand? I think he decreed that the women in the white house had to dress like women, meaning skirts and dresses. Well, if you watch FOX News, you'll see what I mean. Otoh, it's cultural. I watch Spanish-language tv and ogle the weather women.