Chris McKinley wrote:I've noticed a few recent threads that spurred me to ask myself why are CMA practitioners so relatively adolescent in their attitudes about combat training and martial arts in general? CMA people tend to come across as if they're living in 18th century China in a bad Hong Kong chop sockey flick. It's as if they've been brainwashed not to realize that most of us on this board live in the first world in the post-Boxer Rebellion 21st century, where weapons that negate "secret" kung fu moves are a common element in modern violent crime. They also seem to ignore that we also live in the Information Age in a free-market capitalist society that celebrates the individual and his freedoms rather than blindly worships the collective.
There are no more "grasshoppahs" and mysterious Shaolin monks, nor super-secret villages where everybody is a first cousin and they're all undefeatable martial arts masters. There are martial arts instructors plying their trade by offering a service, i.e., teaching you how to defend yourself, for a fee. You don't climb a misty mountaintop to wait until you are ready for the master to magically appear. You simply look in the Yellow Pages, like you do for any other service you require.
Nobody takes their car into the shop for a repair and calls the mechanic "master". Nobody takes an oath of loyalty to their dentist. If you sign up for dance lessons, you don't pay for lessons for ten years in the hope that eventually the instructor will find you "worthy" to learn the cha-cha. If you buy a firearm and sign up for a gun safety & home defense class, you're not going to stick around if the instructor says you have to walk in a circle while holding your unloaded gun for two years before he'll show you how to aim and fire at a target, all the while paying him full tuition of course. You don't take out an auto insurance policy with State Farm, pay the premiums for years, and then get told that the coverage will kick in only once you've developed proper "driving body".
Even assuming that CMA still offers equally combat-viable content material, is it any wonder that practitioners of other approaches laugh and snigger at the mystical, satin pajama, death-touch mentality of folks in the CMA? Why have other forms of MA been able to make the transition into the 21st century seamlessly while CMA still does not? Does anybody in CMA even care whether they are being marginalized to the dustbin of obsolescence?
At first I was like "huh" because I have never encountered this with the people I train with and learn from. But I'll give it a go here:
One can make an argument that man in general has emasculated himself almost to the point of no return. What is considered "normal" by the modern male is often some kind of metro, douchey, semi-gay, wannabe. Calling them out isn't going to set them straight. Same thing with martial arts. I was shocked but ultimately not surprised to see all of the men who did their forms in their silk pajamas promptly leave the building when it was time for san shou. That's right, they couldn't even watch others use what is supposedly the point of their martial arts in the first place.
So in any case, real men will hand out with real men. Real martial arts practitioners will keep it real. Crying about the lack of growth in others won't bring about growth.