But you should worry. As I have said on a previous thread, according to my solicitor close to 100% of divorce cases come with an accusation against the man. That is the way things are done because there is no consequence for the accuser even when they're proven to be untrue. So be ready to prove your innocence because that is what is required (not innocent until proven guilty).
"Close to 100% of divorce cases" do not involve claims of marital rape. That's for sure.
And, apart from being another passive attack on women's issues in general, have nothing to do with sexual harassment in the workplace.
Well, neither does male rape, female incarceration rates, feminism, female domestic violence, divorce, or any of the other "what abouts" that have been brought up.
Sorry, I still don't worry. I've been divorced twice. I'm still friendly with both ex-wives. If I were pissed at anyone, it'd be at the lawyers. So, I don't put any faith at all in what your barrister says.
But, is there anybody on the board who has been charged with rape before, during, or after marriage. How about those of you who have been raped? Do you have personal stories, instead of media reports? I've heard people complain about women coming forward too much, from people who claim that none of the women in their lives complain of harassment.
Personally, I think the over-reaction today is on the part of those who whine and complain about women's concerns and complains. HTFU. Yeah, "you" might be accused falsely of something one day. Get used to it. It's been going on a long time. Being considered "guilty" until proven innocent is nothing new in the US. In NYC, yesterday, a guy was set free after 30 years in jail for a rape he didn't commit. The two guys who confessed said he had nothing to do with it. But, that didn't matter because the DA wanted a conviction. Just Google "man freed after __ years" for rape and there'll be pages of examples that go back decades.
Why the big bleeding hearts over the falsely accused now? Pure political shtick. No, it wasn't better "back then." It won't be better if women just stay quiet, either. I have daughters and grand-daughters, and I don't want them to feel they have to put up with anyone's bs. Men will have to live with that. Boys will have to grow up to be successful with women.
"A man is rich when he has time and freewill. How he chooses to invest both will determine the return on his investment."