suckinlhbf wrote:tied up in their connection to the ground they actually become detached from it
It is exactly what have happened. Trying to drop but can't and feel like stand on a bouncing ball.
You can not try. Dropping is just dropping, letting go. However, even if you let go of all your strength, it doesn't necessarily mean that you will feel stable. Rooting demands a certain physical development of not only the legs, but also the whole kua area and the lower back. When you first try to practice how to relax the legs you will be unstable. We call this "floating". But when you have gone through this stage and keep on relaxing, you will gain a new type of strength in the legs, which is the use of core muscles to naturally stabilise the structure. We are not used to really activate those core muscles in daily life, so they need to be strengthened. First you need to relax the shallow, outer musculature. Because your core musculature is weak, your legs will wobble. So it will take some time to develop this natural core strength. First when you have reached this stage, you will be able to really relax the whole body deeply, including the legs, and still not collapse. Only when you have reached this stage, you can start to understand what real rooting is about.
wayne hansen wrote:No special postures it is just about awareness and relaxation
Pushing helps and correct form
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Lots of practice
Agreed that "it is just about awareness and relaxation". Form and push hands is important. Pushing helps you feel and understand your balance better.
Simple wuji standing is good and recommended though. Just stand naturally, relax your whole body and try to scan every little part of your body with awareness, trying to understand your body's tensions and unbalance.