everything wrote:jd, that is excellent. The way you're training is the way I want to train. It's tough because my judo and bjj classes are totally separate. We have ex-wrestlers at judo and bjj, but few judoka at bjj. The bjj school is not as competition oriented. The judo school is, but is mostly kids. Taijiquan and baguazhang - forget about it. Almost useless by comparison except that I know what I want out of it - similar things to what you're talking about. Will check out your blog. Really great thread. Thanks a lot.
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Glad you are getting something out of the discussion, thank you. It took me a long while to find a school that worked for me. I really do love IMA, I find the concepts are excellent and some of the practical applications I have experienced from them are very impressive indeed. I'm excited about seriously studying them a long with my grappling. But yeah, I left my old IMA teacher for a number of reasons. One of them was I didn't find that much value in the training methods. Part of that was immaturity and not being able to see things I can now, but another part was the lack of realism. I just hated seeing guys who had studied for a number of years turn into tense, stiff corpses when sparring or fighting came. Also lack of good, tried and true methods that produced results were sorely lacking.
It wasn't that I just jumped into grappling and found my niche though. I had experimented with it before. I joined my first school mainly because I knew I wanted to be a grappler, and it had Marcelo Garcia teaching. I still felt like an outsider in some ways though, this is something I see time and time again. New guys coming in, looking terrified. Regardless of belt, if they have some experience they just act tough. Its a scary thing stepping on the mat with people you don't know and wrestling. So, I try and talk to people and get them to loosen up. Anyway,my original grappling training heavily emphasised conditioning more than technique. I felt so in over my head. Especially one occasion where I didn't eat breakfast and went to one of Marcelo's private conditioning classes. I almost fainted and was made to sit out. At that point I started learning about nutrition.
Time went on, things changed, and I made a jump to a different place. It changed a lot of things for me. I feel very secure with the place I train. I am at home on the mat. A big thing about training is it has to be fun. People seem to neglect this, a lot of people want to be macho and make it unfun for people. Fun does not imply being lazy, we train really hard. But, you have to want to show up every day. Marcelo was good at doing that. You just wanted to be around him, and he was always doing ridiculous drills that made people laugh from how hard they were.
Thats the real thing. Something challenging and fun. I hope you find it. Its great to have people from all styles with no ego just trading information. Breaking it down, revealing all the little tricks that make it work. Its really awesome how fast guys get good. I feel like I skyrocketed when I started training in this type of environment, and I watched others do the same.
I haven't updated my blog in ages, but I will.
In relation to your first post , JD, I spent a lot of time working on my defense and positional escapes and that helped me relax alot when sparring and save lots of energy so I don't gas so quick. The reasoning behind it is that once I got to the point where I could defend and escape from bad positions against decent guys with confidence, then I started to relax more when attacking/guard passing/maintaining positions on top or from the guard because I wasn't as concerned about getting put in a bad spot. That's what helped for me anyway, with gassing.
Thank you for the advice. I get a lot out of your posts. I actually feel ok with being in bad positions. My half guard is probably my best position, I can sweep a lot from there. My mount escape is pretty decent, but my side mount, ugh. Its more a mental thing, I accept the pass after a long fight and then I lay in side mount. When knee on belly or mount comes, that's the "oh shit" button and I get out of there immediately. I have to change that.
I trained a lot last night. Its definitely my guard opening/passing that needs the most work. What happens is I will often sweep someone from bottom, and then lay in their guard taking punishment. I really worked on that last night, with some good results. I got armbarred so fucking fast when I had shitty passing posture while I stood up at one point though. Posture, posture, posture. This goes back to a question before about how IMA relates to grappling, and again the point of body mechanics and keeping elbow/knee connection while moving in low, powerful stances was stressed to me.
The guy looked at me and said "Why did you bend like that? keep your posture". I later on told him the trouble I was having, and he calmly looked at me and said "So pass". I like it when people keep things simple. Thats just how he thinks, and he gets results.
As far as meditation and progress go, I did notice one thing last night that really helped my gas levels. We were starting sparring from half guard. Prior to that we had worked on Kimura set ups from mount. I could see how the half guard pass flowed perfectly into the various kimura's we had worked. While I was setting up the pass, I could see in my mind the gripset I wanted in side control, and the kimura I would attack with after. That is to say while I was passing, I had the setup for the next two moves (control, then finish) in my mind. So I was doing three moves, the pass, control, then finish all together. I've chained moves together before, but never mentally during the match. Before they just happened. Thinking this way, it gave me a lot of confidence, and made me feel like there was a destination close by. So I could go hard physically, but still paced myself mentally.
It was far better than just doing one move and changing here and there as the situation dictates, not knowing where your going. That leaves me stressed and unsure. But having knowledge of the situation and the variables, that's a huge confidence booster. I think the improved concentration from meditation especially helped with this.
Btw, do you train at Studio X?
Yes, I train there under Josh Griffiths. My name is Sebastian. I see you train at Balance? We had a bunch of Balance people for some sparring and belt promotions during the opening of our school.