When a happy young wife announces to her friends she is pregnant, she and they say, "I'm having a baby, I'm so pleased," and "We are so happy you are having a baby." They do not say "fetus." Or "conceptus." Or "cell group."
When the pregnancy test indicated positive, we we'd say "We're expecting a baby." We didn't say "We have a baby." Saying that it's a baby doesn't mean that it is one yet, just that that if all goes well it will be. Or, there's a difference between being pregnant and having a baby.
But, I'm not in favor of abortions; I'm just not able to have a baby. I also have children with children, and have seen my wife have a miscarriage. Sorry, I think only a woman who is pregnant can make this decision. Society may, imo, decide when that decision can no longer be made. My problem is that society takes no responsibility for the babies it requires a woman to bear.
"A man is rich when he has time and freewill. How he chooses to invest both will determine the return on his investment."